2010年12月26日星期日

Reflections on Growing

Reflections on Growing

Benefit of all mankind in the cause of all, the first one, that is the cause of educating people - (French) Rousseau. This wisdom is very clear exposition of the importance of education.
"Education" subject, it is not timely, but a long, long process, and the ever-present human life is in constant learning. At different stages of human growth period, the ways and means of education should be adjusted, can not simply inherent in the method in accordance with it to rest on its laurels, it would be stubborn rigidity.
Chinese proverb "Give a man a fish, as delegate to fish." It came from "I", said to impart both knowledge and people, as people learn knowledge of the methods taught. Is in fact very simple, the fish is the goal, fishing is a means, a fish that can interpret temporary hunger, but hunger is not a long-term solution, if you want to always have fish, then to learn fishing methods.
In her education, I can say that a profound experience. Since the daughter was born, how to teach every day I think she is the most important issue. Beginning, and many parents the idea is the same, always the daughter did not want to lose at the starting line. I remember her giving birth soon, I just heard of the Three Hundred Tang Poems to her small head irrigation, and regardless of whether or not she understand; will be fed from the time school language, but also carry the literacy block, even if is out of play is no exception, after the tireless efforts of my daughter really is recognition of the hundreds of Chinese characters, so my heart proud; in her little hand still Nabu Wen pen, I wrote the name has even simple arithmetic in a book, and asked her to calculate the answer thanks to a number written on the top of her, watching her add and subtract from less than ten and then twenty, until a hundred-digit calculation but also calculated relatively comfortable, and I think my This advanced education has been paying off a daughter.
Still later, her daughter almost three years old, I want her versatility. Thus, in learning cultural knowledge at the same time, after a comprehensive comparison, the feeling of the Chinese folk music to sound good, flavor is also very dedicated to her daughter after their visit to learn an instrument of their choice. In the scene watched by her daughter than her little sisters some skilled playing zither, in the elegant music, the daughter did not hesitate, happily told me that want to learn Zheng. Then hastened to buy back the zither, and gave her specifically looking for the teacher, once a week to go to a small class, rain or shine.
Initially, the enthusiasm of her daughter's learning quite high, on hearing that he can rhyme to a simple pop-up, it was also delighted to. But with the learning curve of the increase, song complexity and the convergence of the hands of the increasingly high demand, especially for the various chord fingering treatment so that her daughter not only to little fingers before each play the zither entangled sea turtle, but also because of continuous hard to Anxian, the size and strength should be controlled, so that her tender fingers press the strings, carved deep imprint of a bar, and then the blood soaked, and then later on become calluses, painful time watching her daughter Anxian look, my heart even more than her pain, but think about learning to have to pay the price, only pretending to look like indifference to practice and more practice to let his daughter, no tough talk, sometimes I feel too cold. But as long as one would like me to do it is good to her, like her life on the road in the future more expertise than the others, can only be Yingqixinchang so. Daughter unshakeable two hours a day learning, no longer conscious, lazy and escape is her favorite tricks.

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