2010年12月26日星期日

Reflections on Growing

Reflections on Growing

Benefit of all mankind in the cause of all, the first one, that is the cause of educating people - (French) Rousseau. This wisdom is very clear exposition of the importance of education.
"Education" subject, it is not timely, but a long, long process, and the ever-present human life is in constant learning. At different stages of human growth period, the ways and means of education should be adjusted, can not simply inherent in the method in accordance with it to rest on its laurels, it would be stubborn rigidity.
Chinese proverb "Give a man a fish, as delegate to fish." It came from "I", said to impart both knowledge and people, as people learn knowledge of the methods taught. Is in fact very simple, the fish is the goal, fishing is a means, a fish that can interpret temporary hunger, but hunger is not a long-term solution, if you want to always have fish, then to learn fishing methods.
In her education, I can say that a profound experience. Since the daughter was born, how to teach every day I think she is the most important issue. Beginning, and many parents the idea is the same, always the daughter did not want to lose at the starting line. I remember her giving birth soon, I just heard of the Three Hundred Tang Poems to her small head irrigation, and regardless of whether or not she understand; will be fed from the time school language, but also carry the literacy block, even if is out of play is no exception, after the tireless efforts of my daughter really is recognition of the hundreds of Chinese characters, so my heart proud; in her little hand still Nabu Wen pen, I wrote the name has even simple arithmetic in a book, and asked her to calculate the answer thanks to a number written on the top of her, watching her add and subtract from less than ten and then twenty, until a hundred-digit calculation but also calculated relatively comfortable, and I think my This advanced education has been paying off a daughter.
Still later, her daughter almost three years old, I want her versatility. Thus, in learning cultural knowledge at the same time, after a comprehensive comparison, the feeling of the Chinese folk music to sound good, flavor is also very dedicated to her daughter after their visit to learn an instrument of their choice. In the scene watched by her daughter than her little sisters some skilled playing zither, in the elegant music, the daughter did not hesitate, happily told me that want to learn Zheng. Then hastened to buy back the zither, and gave her specifically looking for the teacher, once a week to go to a small class, rain or shine.
Initially, the enthusiasm of her daughter's learning quite high, on hearing that he can rhyme to a simple pop-up, it was also delighted to. But with the learning curve of the increase, song complexity and the convergence of the hands of the increasingly high demand, especially for the various chord fingering treatment so that her daughter not only to little fingers before each play the zither entangled sea turtle, but also because of continuous hard to Anxian, the size and strength should be controlled, so that her tender fingers press the strings, carved deep imprint of a bar, and then the blood soaked, and then later on become calluses, painful time watching her daughter Anxian look, my heart even more than her pain, but think about learning to have to pay the price, only pretending to look like indifference to practice and more practice to let his daughter, no tough talk, sometimes I feel too cold. But as long as one would like me to do it is good to her, like her life on the road in the future more expertise than the others, can only be Yingqixinchang so. Daughter unshakeable two hours a day learning, no longer conscious, lazy and escape is her favorite tricks.
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Computers and children's mental health

Computers and children's mental health

See today's children, those of us who nearly Buhuozhinian can only sigh, because we were only windmills, spring beans, or playing the top, skipping, etc. The most simple and plain game, and now the children put a small hand on the keyboard, the operation of proficiency you unthinkable, not only listening to songs similar to read, but also a wide variety of online game playing, of course, QQ farms, chat, tell the truth, though a few years with a history of the computer can be a lot less than the children to also some options I do not know how to operate, he will do a crystal clear, did feel Generations.
Since the family had the computer, either to me or the children are greatly facilitated, first in children's learning, some of the knowledge we do not know can read e-books be solved, in life we can publish their ideas network to communicate with different people, to establish a platform for sharing resources, you can also send and receive information in the form of an e-mail, but also online shopping, etc. It is essential, however, although the countries in the remediation network environment, but today against treatment, information on the implementation of unhealthy shield, a few days later resurgence. Recently I discovered that there is a network game called "wife was not at home" game, in particular, is angry, its contents can be imagined, some ads are fucking not authentic, not stop a woman's breasts peristalsis to the Publicity bra, and some publicity pornographic pictures, I do not know who is uploading, I'd have liked smashed computers, computer Yes, say several thousand a hit that I can make the monthly number.
With the increasing burden of the earth, to a large population of Chinese family planning policy, prenatal and postnatal care, in addition to rural, urban children are mostly only child, parents are devoted more effort to focus on children's growth, may be ignorant of the conscience of some guy is to pursue the maximization of benefits, frequently publish information on these unhealthy, it is possible to delete today, tomorrow and into, in short, a computer is good, more good than harm, but we can not ignore the existence of such abuses, have painstakingly to the operation and management, especially for children's supervision, or a child's psychological impact of severe, mainly in the following aspects.
First, children prone to rebellious psychology. Addictive game play, especially in primary schools, junior high school students, a number of relatively weak self-control, once hooked on online games, out of control, completely immersed in the virtual world, has never recovered, a substantial decline in academic performance, especially boarders, as long as has been available even in the net bar out of a day or two to eat instant noodles a day, which in turn bring down the body, have stomach problems are common, so incorrigible students and teachers often have contradiction, he only cares about his games, learning long out the window complacency. The city's children are no exception, if one parent is not culture, who knows what he was at the computer, you might think that people in the learning they're lucky their children Directors, until discovered too late, let him play with his chosen to play. Especially with the mother more than a bargaining chip, which challenge the stubborn fact of treason, he insisted on playing games, bent into their happy world, but the parents did not allow, which creates a psychological confrontation, and sometimes irreconcilable home home.
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Liu Bei in my eyes

Liu Bei in my eyes

Liu Bei, the word Xuande, Han,  Zhuoxian people, the Han Emperor Jing Jing Wang Sheng, after sub Zhongshan, the founding emperor of Shu Han during the Three Kingdoms, politicians, due to a poor family living by selling straw sandals. Until the 24-year-old was able to apply for the army, crusade against the Yellow Turban Rebellion. Since then, they boarded the history of the political arena. Jiabeng and Baidicheng AD 223. At the age of 63 years.
A "Three Kingdoms", the love Jen Liu Bei to shape the material, courteous, Zhirenshanren people with lofty ideals. Can read the history of the product carefully, I think Liu Bei in my eyes this is the case.
First, the ill-fated, luck.
Liu Bei life, can be described as ill-fated, luck. Eastern Han Dynasty, and the eunuch wife's family turn authoritarian, strong wife's family, threatening imperial power, the emperor to get rid of wife's family is relying on forces eunuchs, eunuch got the upper hand, but also domineering, Maiguanyujue, oppressive good, political corruption, and hardship. Liu Bei had plenty of ambition, but can not display. Until 24 years old, the Yellow Turban army repression in budding. Themselves onto the political stage, Kuang Fu Han Dynasty ambition to become increasingly strengthened Ever since, the recruit, occupy one side boundary. However, because of their weak, Dong Benxi vote. Went to Zan, Cao Cao, Yuan Shao and others under its command. After Sangumaolu, before it Zhuge wit aids from government, only the achievements of some kind of foundation as points. But still can not Chengjiubaye. Finally, the Baidicheng Jiabeng regret.
Second, Appreciating know people, calm and collected
In that chaotic time, Liu Bei after Zhuge Liang's adjuvant, achieved a lot not a small business can be at this time, they sent assassins to assassinate Liu Bei, Cao Cao, Fang was the transfer, opening of Fawei situation, and even joint preparation of dollars. For a little close, Cizhe will not have to, subsequently into the light, Wei-off look stricken. Thus observation of the bright, Yi Zhi very people. A minute later, passengers going to the toilet, prepare said that the light; "to be Sunkist, enough to help Jun benefit." Liang asked the host, prepare, saying: "played by its people." Liang Xu sighed and said: "off-color view of moving, but God fear, depending on the number of low and disobedient, evil-shaped leakage Xiexin built, will Cao assassin. "chase it, has jumped over the wall and go. In this matter, Liu Bei just by talking to a person's ability to understand, which all showed strong Appreciating Liu know people skills. Remain calm, but Liu Bei is a good character, according to the "Han Wei Chunqiu" the book reads: Liu Zong Qi Jiang, afraid to report preparation. Preparation also do not know, sleep is a long time, sent to ask the pro-Cong. Order SONG Zhong Yi Xuan Zhi Cong prepared. Is the time in the Wan Tso Kung, maintenance is great horror, that loyalty, saying: "Big Morohito do whatever the case, not earlier phase language, this disaster to the party told me, almost did not have too much drama!" Clean cut to the loyalty, saying: " Big head this off, not enough solutions anger, shame is also a real man to kill Emily generation complex parting! "loyalty to the removal, is the call-steps proposed. Liu Bei in this critical situation, was still able to remain calm, not angry. Thus, at this time Xilian years after Liu Bei, then the impulse is no longer a young man.
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